Sunday Times used a whole colour supplement on this yesterday
Along with the ex "High Mistress" of St Paul's, in an article concerned about girls being turned by over educating into "inadequate basket cases, mental illness and eating disorders
A female friend once (over)shares that, after a first date went unexpectedly well, she and the chap ended up getting friendly back at her place. While he was in the process of taking her from behind, the boy stuck out his leg and actually planted his foot on her cheek, basically stood on her face. When quizzed about this extraordinary move (they went on to have a short relationship) he confessed that he’d seen it in porn and wanted to try it. What a mover.
you need to man up and recognise how many of the good things you take for granted, how much of the mayo in the sandwich of your life is down to women's liberation. And we're not talking about the liberation to make lesbian porn or neck alcopops. It's not the liberation of pole dancing and pubic alopecia.
The women's movement has given you half the human race as a present, as equals and friends. And nothing has been bigger than that. Liberation combined with contraception was a really big deal for everyone's sex life. Actually, it invented the sex life. But the great winners of the women's movement weren't women. It gave them a great fury at the scale of the injustice of the past and the distance yet to cover.
The trouble with righting some wrongs is that it makes the remaining ones seem even more unbearable. But it's you lot who were the real beneficiaries of the movement. You did precious little to help. You sat on the sofa with your hand down your pants and sneered while at every step forward, women made your life better. And it cost you nothing. But it gave you a better mum, better sisters, better people to work with, to drink with, to tell you jokes, to go on holiday with and just to hang out with.
Think of your last weekend session in the pub. Now imagine it without girls.
Badders, there was touching but apparently not of genitals as this was about learning intimacy and enjoyment of bodies rather than w**king furiously and constantly.
In another session it was stroking each others naked bodies on a bed
I’d say the more important questions are to do with whether the therapy worked and if he can now get it up without having to watch dwarves buttfvxked by monkeys in French maid uniforms or whatever
If he can then I don’t see the problem. A Laz-esque knowledge of porn may even make him more creative in bed
I've wondered what my reaction would be if someone sitting next to me on the tube or on a plane were to start watching porn on her (or his) laptop/iPad.
Clergs, nonce refers to paedophiles only. Looking at porn on public transport etc., doesn't make you a nonce. An ignorant pervert, yes, but not a nonce.
no, because you are not reproducing. You are wasting all your sperm and are too busy w**king or thinking about w**king to find somebody to reproduce with
I agree with Phoebe. I suspect however that porn addiction is worse for people with eclectic tastes or those who aren't very successful with the opposite sex
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Its not a thing.
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Does this mean the new bloke can't get it up (or can't come) because he's spent so much time walking to porn?
yeah that's a thing that happens
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Heh
w**king ffs
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Sunday Times used a whole colour supplement on this yesterday
Along with the ex "High Mistress" of St Paul's, in an article concerned about girls being turned by over educating into "inadequate basket cases, mental illness and eating disorders
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Does poverty porn count? I binge-watched "Broke" on BBC.
More seriously, why did you assume in your first post that it's solely a male affliction?
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It's a fairly reasonable assumption to make, tbf.
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A female friend once (over)shares that, after a first date went unexpectedly well, she and the chap ended up getting friendly back at her place. While he was in the process of taking her from behind, the boy stuck out his leg and actually planted his foot on her cheek, basically stood on her face. When quizzed about this extraordinary move (they went on to have a short relationship) he confessed that he’d seen it in porn and wanted to try it. What a mover.
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p.s. I see Bernstein has taken this thread as his latest opportunity to post some absolute bollocks
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maybe he wasn't that into you
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I dunno - sounds like he was quite far
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not sure porn addiction is a thing, compulsive w@nking habit might be a thing?
are there any stories of people going cold turkey and freaking out from lack of porn?
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It's not a thing. I could quit any time I like.
In fact, I will quit. So there
Starting, ummmm, now... Err, tomorrow, no, wait - first of September.
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70% of Generation Z view porn at least once a week
Book contains useful list of how women can combat anxiety- exercise, diet, sense of perspective etc
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/magazine/the-sunday-times-magazine/clarissa-farr-book-extract-how-to-help-girls-beat-anxiety-6xnpj6nwz
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Who is addicted, Feebs? You or a gentleman caller?
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Does it advise against "over-educating" themselves and suggest they find a nice husband and have many strong sons instead?
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No. The woman is some sort of feminist
Heh @ "Silly Ms Farr"
https://www.conservativewoman.co.uk/kathy-gyngell-a-feminazi-lesson-from-top-private-head-boys-should-be-brainwashed-into-taking-girls-seriously/
Anyway ,beautiful women like you, Anna, have the world at their feet in any case, and don't need to worry about any of this stuff
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Yes, she shouldn't worry her pretty little head about it, Bernstein, eh?
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Somerset yokel shout
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Badders, a recent acquisition to my harem is an ex porn addict
he has been to intimacy therapy, which was basically showering with his therapist as far as I can tell
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What issues does he have as a result? Are you being asked to do some dodgy stuff?
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Well that's - unique. Was it strictly look but don't touch? Or was he showering her with pee/jizz?
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Where the actual fook do you find these men
Jesus I thought I'd dated some duds
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you need to man up and recognise how many of the good things you take for granted, how much of the mayo in the sandwich of your life is down to women's liberation. And we're not talking about the liberation to make lesbian porn or neck alcopops. It's not the liberation of pole dancing and pubic alopecia.
The women's movement has given you half the human race as a present, as equals and friends. And nothing has been bigger than that. Liberation combined with contraception was a really big deal for everyone's sex life. Actually, it invented the sex life. But the great winners of the women's movement weren't women. It gave them a great fury at the scale of the injustice of the past and the distance yet to cover.
The trouble with righting some wrongs is that it makes the remaining ones seem even more unbearable. But it's you lot who were the real beneficiaries of the movement. You did precious little to help. You sat on the sofa with your hand down your pants and sneered while at every step forward, women made your life better. And it cost you nothing. But it gave you a better mum, better sisters, better people to work with, to drink with, to tell you jokes, to go on holiday with and just to hang out with.
Think of your last weekend session in the pub. Now imagine it without girls.
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Badders, there was touching but apparently not of genitals as this was about learning intimacy and enjoyment of bodies rather than w**king furiously and constantly.
In another session it was stroking each others naked bodies on a bed
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And he paid for this 'therapy'?
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Run very fast phoebe
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Yup. Run for the hills.
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That doesn't sound like therapy, but rather his overactive imagination or a prozzie
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Heh @ this.
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Sumo - it is an observed scientific fact that no man who posts that copypasta has ever had sex with a real woman without money exchanging hands.
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And heh at showering with a prozzer being 'therapy'
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I'm another one who would advocate running for the hills.
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Me too - I'm a big Iron Maiden fan
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That thing about the hills.
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RUN TOOOOOOOO THA HIIIIIIIILLLLLS
RUN FO-WA YOUR LIII-IIIIIFFE!!!!
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I’d say the more important questions are to do with whether the therapy worked and if he can now get it up without having to watch dwarves buttfvxked by monkeys in French maid uniforms or whatever
If he can then I don’t see the problem. A Laz-esque knowledge of porn may even make him more creative in bed
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Is anyone gonna believe me that this op prompted me to treat myself to some porn and a w**k after maybe 3 years without anY porn whatsoever
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Only the first bit.
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Thank you Stru for a more rounded view.
He very much can get it up, whether that is due to my naked body or him imagining some utter filth he has previously seen doesn’t bother me
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I wonder how many sacked for watching porn at work suffer with this? Is it recognised as a disorder?
If so I should be alright at tribunal.
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If you have a problem and watch porn at work, could you claim discrimination (if dismissed) and (if injured) claim compo for w**ker's whiplash?
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It isn't listed in DSM V
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Let's be honest, porn is fooking great
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No no, Laz. Porn is making fooking LOOK great, whilst creating unrealistic expectations of what is normal behaviour, innit?
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A guy I used to work with got sacked for watching porn at work.
In an open-plan office.
The mind boggles.
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I've wondered what my reaction would be if someone sitting next to me on the tube or on a plane were to start watching porn on her (or his) laptop/iPad.
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There are probably numerous porn films which may suggest an appropriate response to that situation.
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May I recommend:
*Shoulder tap *
"You're a fookin nonce, mate"
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Doesn't work if they already know ofc
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How much is too much porn? Asking for a friend.
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Feebs, I’d be happy to discuss this with you in more detail over dinner?
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Martian - when it interferes with your work, social life, love life etc
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his phone blocks some normal websites due to the porn blocking stuff on it.
Off to the theatre tonight, didn't book a love seat has they were too expensive so will just grope eachother with an armrest in the way
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Clergs, nonce refers to paedophiles only. Looking at porn on public transport etc., doesn't make you a nonce. An ignorant pervert, yes, but not a nonce.
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I resent the term ignorant pervert
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Re-sent it to whom?
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the equalities commissioner
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One to think about? Food, shelter and reproduction are pretty much hardwired into humans aren’t they?
Isn’t porn just an extension of the urge to reproduce?
Why fight 3+\- million years of evolution?
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no, because you are not reproducing. You are wasting all your sperm and are too busy w**king or thinking about w**king to find somebody to reproduce with
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That’s true but porn plays to the reproductive urge.
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I agree with Phoebe. I suspect however that porn addiction is worse for people with eclectic tastes or those who aren't very successful with the opposite sex
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