Well, maybe not all men.
Dated a man for 5 months. All of a sudden he went on a date with a new woman and I have been completely replaced from that instance. We are now less than 2 weeks since their first date and they have spent nearly half of that time together (she’s come from a different city and stayed at his house – she’s been there since last Sat and I guess will remain the weekend). She’s even been meeting his friends, etc.
I’m heartbroken and he’s wanting to be friends despite taking no responsibility for his actions. I requested he cut her out of his life if he wants to build a friendship with me – he refused. We have been unable to speak face to face as she’s always there, and prioritised.
Please help me understand....
How can he replace me with her so quickly and easily.
Why are they so full on and spending so much time together so soon after they first met.
Why wouldn’t he cut her out his life to keep me as a friend if I mean so much to him. He doesn't know her but he knows me.
Why he is prioritising her over me and why isn’t he making the effort to speak to me in person.
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Is that how long I was away. I was too busy crying clearly. I wish it wasn't all real and just all for the wind.
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It's sad but he's not that into you. Cut your losses with him.
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I don't want him back to date. And I've already messaged him we are completely done.
It's just I can't help but miss him and wish he would try to get in touch. But I have the feeling this is it or he would have reached out by now...its been 3 days
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LOL at the idea you told him ‘we were completely done’.
um he did that when he moved someone in for a week of shagging.
why are you being such a pathetic jizz rag. This guy is utter scum… what are you crying about?
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Think I'm just crying about that hole that's left from having that person I would have chatted to every day, shared my day with, the physical/emotional affection, planning stuff to look forward to with, definitely his company, the fact he could make me laugh like nobody else, the intimacy overall, etc
But yes....utter scum
I can't even take comfort in the fact he's found his perfect woman etc as he's constantly on hinge so clearly still after women for dating or sex
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Im not crying, youre crying
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Has nobody on Rof offered to help you get over him? This place has changed
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Seriously. Get therapy.
This level of hinge stalking bunny boiling behaviour is not normal.
You also sound like a drama Queen sending dramatic ultimatums and expecting him to submit to them. Utter scum he may be but he is well shot of you too.
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I don't see it as a dramatic ultimatum. It was a reasonable request I'm the circumstances
I'm on hinge as well and as we live close he frequently pops up on mine. No stalking required.
ML......nobody up north on here is there
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I know this is complete bullshit.
But pls explain why you think it’s such an awful thing that he is on Hinge… when you are too?
I mean if you’re not on Hinge stalking him to see if he pops up.. then you are also on there looking for sex.
*stirs the sauce for that boiled bunny*
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Hinge is for dating....Well I suppose some may use it to find sex. Tinder was more for sex.
I don't think it's bad he's on hinge. I think it's brilliant. Means he's looking to move on from her. Even if I never speak to him again, I will be satisfied knowing they are over
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Great.
So shut the fook up about it and stop whinging about crying your eyes out.
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OH - stop carping on, this is no plaice for catfishing.
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Also..
‘I can't even take comfort in the fact he's found his perfect woman etc as he's constantly on hinge so clearly still after women for dating or sex’
Is fundamentally inconsistent with…
‘I don't think it's bad he's on hinge. I think it's brilliant. Means he's looking to move on from her. Even if I never speak to him again, I will be satisfied knowing they are over’
Don’t waste our time with such shitty wind ups. At least make them decent.
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