loads of people are saying “not in any circumstances, and even if she cheats on you later it’s your own fault for allowing her to spend time with a friend”
 

Who is saying that “if she cheats on you later it’s your own fault for allowing her to spend time with a friend”?

I don’t think anyone is opposed to their partners spending time with a friend; but there’s “spending time with” and there’s “going on a romantic mini-break to Venice with”

tbf it was hotnow (and four of his socks liking it)

Thing is if this dude finds out in 5 yrs time that he’s been raising LA’s child (with coke baby foetal alcohol syndrome and all) and he says “woah woah I didn’t know you’d cheated on me!” , the woman and all her mates would say “come on dude it was blindingly obvious what was going on and you accepted it fully”.

and he’d look like a right cucked plum

Ah that’s just hotnow

Vincent : I ain't saying it's right. But you're saying a foot massage don't mean nothing, and I'm saying it does. Now look, I've given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don't, but they do, and that's what's so fooking cool about them. There's a sensuous thing going on where you don't talk about it, but you know it, she knows it, fvcking Marsellus knew it, and Antwone should have fooking better known better. I mean, that's his fvcking wife, man. He can't be expected to have a sense of humor about that shit. You know what I'm saying?

Jules : That's an interesting point. Come on, let's get into character.

Jello was right - a shameless tun-hunt thread comes good...

Litmanen -  see your point but i don't think it's a massive leap of trust to say "ok, my missus is going to be in a foreign city hanging out with her old pal for a couple of days; I'm perfectly happy they won't fvck."  

Good for you m8.