When did you last visit a pub?

I organised a “work meeting” at 4pm in the pub so we could catch up.

He hadn’t been to the pub since 2019!

How can you not be in a pub for years? He blamed children but I don’t take that as I took my 10 year old nephew to the pub on Sunday to play darts.

Am I the problem?

If we mean a proper pub and just for a drink then it must be 7 or 8 months.  Which excluding lockdown must be the longest period of pub absence in my life. 

I am shocked - there appear to be a number of outwardly perfectly respectable rofers who have. not visited a pub for several days, or more.

“I went in March… after a funeral” F F actual S.

I didn’t go yesterday because I had some work on. But I went on Monday and actually have a table booked at the Chinnook tonight.

“January for a pub lunch”

  1. That makes it nigh on four months since you went to the boozer FFS. you mentalist
  2. What the fvck is a “pub lunch”, is that like a lunch you eat in a pub?

Should add, I am at the age where I rather have a beer at home or mates home. Pints are circa 7 quid and who the hell wants to pay 18 quid for a burger and chips . Most pubs are shit

Pubs in the UK (or at least lots of them) have become extremely poor value compared to ‘our day’ it is true but unless people start going out drinking again in big numbers it is difficult to see how they survive. 

drinker numbers are climbing steadily now at least in city centre pubs. I’m happy to pay a good few quid for a nice pint. I’m not paying seven quid for a stella or some other sour shite, but then I never paid three quid for that sort of stuff back in the day.

Heading to a good country village boozer tonight

For food, twice in the last week. For just drinks, about 10 days ago. On average about once every two weeks for drinks and once a week for food. More in the summer typically.

Pubs are struggling, I like to support them, but the youth are not the drinkers we were, so they can't all survive.

It’s not just nutter lager prices that are obscene. Covid allowed places that would rather not store ale to push craft ipa instead, which is priced up. Now some of this is fine, preferably from a pump but can be ok from a tap, as long as not served at sphincter tightening low temperatures. But they’re doing it to max their margins. And that’s before you get to shorts and wine.  The result will be in 20 years bars everywhere owned by PE serving people who think they’re sophisticated, because they actually leave the house to socialise, same trick as with coffee 20 years ago. Daddy has got money in this place you know. 

PS Shoot me Alan.

Well, thing is, they’d rather be in their fam home gym, away from others, before putting in a hard TikTok sesh after dinner. I blame the parents tbh, which means I blame a load of you people. 

Pre-Covid pubs round me in Zone 3 looked like they were on a downward spiral. Always walked past them half-expecting them to be shut down ready to be turned into flats.

These days not the case at all. My local is busier than it's ever been and none of our other 7 or 8 pubs have closed down in years. Popped into one of the prime, expect-to-be-closed-down-soon, backstreet candidates the other night and not only was it busy but they told me they'd probably have a lock-in. So basically people don't mind paying 7 quid a pint cos they like going out and socialising. Drinking at home is bollox.

of course visiting a pub on your own counts as visiting a pub

I love a solo pint

sadly I hit this week’s drink allowance by thursday so it’s a dry short weekend for me (pints allowed monday)

I don’t think I’ve been to a pub in the last year. 

I love pubs. I love the whole brewing business (both the brewing and the business). I love the atmosphere of our local which is one of the best in the south. I like a bit of time out. I adore the fact that Britain has such a range of regional ales and different tastes in different regions.   I love the view over the downs from the back of the pub. A quiet lunch over the downland and weald. Glorious. 

But I can’t go to pubs. I don’t enjoy alcohol anymore for reasons that concern its effect on my family. Alcohol free beers are a poor substitute.  I am not an alcoholic thank God but I do live in a world dominated by the troubles caused by alcoholic so that has totally poisoned my love of the English pub.  It’s not the same going in there and having a Coke. The whole thing for me is a brewed ale vibe. It’s like going into a cave in Bordeaux. The smell and the atmosphere and the taste.

I hope one day this will change and I shall be able to go back into my local. I know some of you will just say why don’t you or you can - yeah of course I can but I no longer want to.  I’ve seen alcohol for what it can do. I hate it for that. It’s like an old friend who you loved and then she betrayed you. 

It’s my birthday this weekend. it will be the second birthday on which I have not wanted a drink to celebrate. 

Much appreciated after a distupted night and a long drive, a solitary day (spent mooching about in the New Forest).  I am having a day in my own thoughts. At least it is sunny. 

Is today your birthday? If so, hope you find a few unexpected splashes of joy. If today isn't your birthday, I still hope you find them. And happy Greek Orthodox Easter weekend to you, too.