A chap I know is either not someone who perves or is extremely discreet. Recently however he appears to have become transfixed by my chest.
I am used to boob starers, and used to non boob starers, but not used to someone changing category so abruptly and persistently.
I find this disconcerting.
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Which do you prefer, assuming equal attractiveness in the starer/non starer?
What were you wearing?
He’s going through male menopause
So long as they are relatively quick and are capable of meeting my gaze, and not intending to be intimidating/disrespectful, I don't really care. I check out people all the time.
@MH, clothes.
Could be. Orwell, is he getting hot flushes ?
Husband has now ventured the theory that he was trying to be polite but just gave up.
describe chest
I am a J or K cup depending on brand.
No man has noticed the colour of my eyes since I was 12.
Husband is probably right
I'm an I cup Doggers, but lots of chaps aren't particularly interested in boobs.
Heh
An I, J or K????? I am in awe of you both.
2girls, 3cup sizes.
The sequel pron the world needs rite now.
Orwell surely the one you find most amusing is the chap who notices your hugemongous babs through instinct of happenstance and then realises it's not the done thing to be openly staring at them and then spends the rest of the tube journey trying desperately to concentrate on his very highbrow book on quantum physics but clearly unable to as his lizard brain seeks to wrench control back from the woke cortex to the point where his neck muscles are straining like a mid 70s arnold swarzenegger.*
*this perhaps happened to me on the train today.**
**i was exhausted by the time i got to waterloo***
***#is it ok to waste all six of your 6u's on one target?
Wang enjoying his book earlier
Heh. The words make me hotkek-bolloksquirm.
Maybe he is a bit stressed/distracted/tired. Lizard brain can sometimes take over when that happens as it's just too much energy to try to consciously remember to look elsewhere...
Maybe he just wanted to stick his head in there and go flubber-dubber-dubber.
The answer may not be adding bromide to his tea. Given men are normally very predictable creatures of habit on this front, the obvious conclusion is that it’s something different you’re doing which is triggering this.
It could also be something left-field. I remember a possibly apocryphal story about a man who bought a necklace for his wife, only for it to be stolen from his office desk the same day. The following week a senior colleague is wearing an identical necklace, and she misinterprets his molar-grinding staring at her décolletage.
However, Occam’s razor states that the simplest explanation is normally true. So the sun has come out, and lizard brain has emerged from hibernation.
Have you asked him if he has recently recovered from being cross eyed?
I'd guess he's going through a breakup.
This is not an ok opinion in 2023, women and their wicked ways leading men to be pervy -this comment belongs in a different century.
Ah summer, how I do love thee
All effects have causes… a break-up on his side is also plausible.
To be clear, I'm not offended as he's not apparently intending to be intimidating etc. I'm just disconcerted about the change in MO. I perve on people too (hopefully discreetly).
Helpful insights here. Thx
Maybe you’re his type ❤️
*although you come across as such a dour bore on here I’d be suprised
I remember my mate's missus (some months on from when I first met her) saying that when I first met her I was staring at her b00bs.
I assured her that I didn't think that was likely the case as I'm very much an ass man. Give me a pair of nice yoga pants over a low cut top every day of the week.
I was actually quite disappointed that she thought I'd do that so maybe your chap isn't consciously a boob looker
As an aside I think quite a lot of women assume blokes are looking at their boobs if the bloke doesn't hold eye contact. But quite a lot of people just don't like holding eye contact and so look down.
Snowfox - sorry but of course it is an 'OK' opinion you lunatic. It's not implying the woman is doing anything wrong but (and I am not saying Orwell is or would do this) it would be just plain daft to say 'oh I wonder why my colleague is looking at my boobs more' on the internet without mentioning you had changed your office attire from baggy sweaters to wonder bra and shirt with three buttons open at the top....
Why has no-one said 'Describe norks'?
Is it because you all know Orwell IRL and I don't?
Gert big wobblin' bejangaz
What did he used to do before, maintain eye contact?
Have you become more intimidating?
I once actually expressly asked a lady for permission to stare at her boobs. It was granted.
Orwell; sorry for not replying yet to your Linkedin - will do so shortly - been absolutely workjammed!
was this your wife Laz?
I had a date with a lady last night who very much had them on display so it was hard not to look.
I strongly suspect this guy has stealth-fallen-in-love with you.
You need to have the talk.
No, it was a random girl in a backpacker bar when I was about 22
Aren't you supposed to look when you're on a date?
I mean, look as opposed to stare obsessively, but... yeah.
Thank fvck. Imagine how terrible your life would be to be held in esteem by Hotnow? *shudders*
No worries Laz
this thread is making me think of 1980s star Sabrina
are you having a date 2 ss?
Donny I think lunatic is a bit strong, I accept your clarification. It read to me like the original comment was that a man staring at boobs is because she must have caused this behaviour.
In my experience some men stare at all boobs, some men make eye contact. It's not typically related to what I'm wearing. That might be different if I regularly wore low cut clothes, but I don't usually.
He will be imagining all sorts of things, distracted by bosom, aching inwardly, unsure whether to reach out and hold. A furtive glance will suffice for now.
Dice I'm debating that. She's very easy to get on with and has spectacular norks but I'm not sure about some other elements.
Sails that comes across as a bit picky. I mean, what more do you want?
Someone who doesn't come across as being a rather hard core dominatrix...
Law I'm entirely happy with my own company so I'm going to be picky as I'm only changing the lifestyle I enjoy for someone who really can persuade me there's a better alternative to what I have.
i say go for round 2
Easy-going dominatrix, you say. Heh.
Would go for R2 to be sure though.
Presumably her personality changes when she picks up the whip (or in Sailo's case the cat o'nine tails)?
Deffo R2 - or should that be Ep 2 - Rum, Sodomy and the Lash?
#hotcrazydominatrix
Sails. Give us deets. What did she want to do to you?
Offered up a strap on at a first date.
Heh. Just heh.
What did you say?
During the meal?
Sailo how many girls have you been pegged by?
They ran out of breadsticks for the hummus
Her being balls-deep in you by dessert?
She suggested it over drinks and snacks and the followed up the offer on whatsapp along with some other instructions and a request to call her mistress.
Did you split it, in the end?
And what was the pegging like?
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