Steering clear of serious shit for a moment, but do you consider yourself as being attractive? If you had to rate yourself, where would you put yourself between 1 and 10?
I ask because we have just had some photos done for work. Usually, I'd consider myself as average, probs around a 6/7, and clearly any photos I would chose to post on social media are the ones I think are best of me. The photos that have been taken for work, no word of a lie (although I am not posting for obvious reasons), make me look like a hobbit or, worse, a weeble.
It shouldn't matter - how I look doesn't impact my job, but I just look awful (and it does matter to me); I am completely depressed - and if that's how people view me, quite frankly I am staggered that I met anyone who was prepared to marry me. I don't need anyone (who knows me or otherwise) to pop up and give me moral support, it is what it is, but I just wondered how other people view themselves. Maybe it is just that I am aging and I find that depressing.