Dinner parties

When was the last one you had?

What did you cook?

How many came?

Alternatively, explain why you h8 fvcking dinner parties.

Not so much dinner party but frequently I or one of my other single neighbours will cook something and invite some others around for a beer/wine with it. Last time I cooked it was a risotto for 4. It's a bit ad hoc and spur of the moment organized through whatsapp.

Thankfully my friends and I are still so rubbish that dinner parties haven't started. It is still just boozing round each others houses with a bag of doritos for food.

Do Brexity people not have dinners with their friends? How odd.

FWIW I can't remember when we last had one but the last one I was invited to was by a cousin of mine who definitely voted for Brexit.

eh? the least metropolitan people I know have loads of dinner parties

it’s an upper/middle class thing true, but that’s not necessarily always a brexit divide

 

laughing at Brexit-y people.

this is not confined to dinner parties 

Saturday.

smoked lamb and various Moroccan salads with garden stuff.  Basically everything that had been grown here

Neighbours and old friends in the UK for a while

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Hate them but they stop me being a recluse.

 

Actually, the one time we do go to a dinner party is on New Year's Eve and that's definitely black tie. The "Call Me Dave" metropolitan types hate dinner jackets, don't they?

About 7 years ago.

Salmon en croute with mashed potato, creamed spinach and asparagus.  Strawberry Mille feuille for dessert.

Eight attendees including my wife and I.

I used to love cooking so much, shame I only cook for myself these days.

How is a dinner party distinguished from cooking dinner for some people?

i don't think I've ever hosted one if a dinner party requires starters and menus and different wines for each course 

“It's all a bit "metropolitan elite" isn't it? Sitting around talking about skiing holidays and laughing at Brexit-y people”

This is a perfect encapsulation of why I like them!

Regularly, although more and more they are long lunches on the weekend. I love to cook so it’s a great chance for me to indulge that hobby. Also see friends and kick back in private. I love planning my menus and drinks, which very much depend on season and vibe. Sometimes I go fancy if it is a special occasion, but I always splash out and have 4 courses at least. 

Thinking about it a large part of my childhood weekends were spent helping my divorced parents both prep for dinner parties so no doubt I was conditioned 

I can only seat 8, sometimes I do 10 with some spare chairs. Tight squeeze!

last one was this weekend, 6 people, menu was secret smokehouse salmon blinis and English sparking wine, then bone in rib of beef with oven baked potatoes, dressed green beans and wilted spinach (served with Rioja) followed by papaya and passion fruit pavlova (pouille fuisse) and a banging cheese board (Sauternes) and finally coffee and chocolates. 

Dinner party is minimum of two courses and you take care to have enough of the relevant wine. Versus one course and open whatever wine is lurking.  You can ponce up and down, to suit your ponciness. 

Diceman - she hasn't gone so far as to say she now thinks Brexit is a shit idea, but she did recently admit that it is pretty much panning out as I predicted and she didn't expect it to be this much of a clusterfook. 

(Don't want to derail the thread with Brexit chat.) 

"Afternoon tea" is admittedly a bit sui generis but I guess the drinking of tea is pretty central to it and the finger sandwiches and cakes don't usually replace another meal.