You guys may remember a short while back I asked for moons and boobs about an elderly family member I am quite close to being taken into hospital.
Well sadly it hasn’t worked, and amidst his various infections and heart failure, he was given the choice of having a leg amputated (with a very high chance of death mid operation) or being made comfortable for his final moments. He chose the being made comfortable route, which I suppose is understandable.
Because of my back I can’t get myself to see him so a mate is coming over tomorrow to pick me up and visit him together. Not quite sure how to prepare myself for something my brother told me was “a pretty disturbing sight”.
Any tips roffers? This is new territory for me, mostly people just cark it suddenly in Tecco land so I have no clue how to consider approaching this or even what to say to him.
Bit scared to be brutally honest.