(a)

Her fat fingers probably pressed the wrong button inadvertently

(D) it was meant to be 

To be honest Abbs she was perfectly pleasant but I felt no great spark and then we hit lockdown, mum's knee replacement and dad's failing heart so I got distracted and by the time I realised we hadn't been in touch at all it felt a bit late to get in touch and at that point it wouldn't have been possible to meet up either.

She has six hours left so we'll see.  If I hadn't deleted her number I'd just send her a text.

Prob she's just been forgetful or didn't recognise you, and as soon as she realises her mistake you won't hear from her any more.  It's happened before, believe me!

didn't you post this same problem a few weeks ago?

have you considered wearing an pirate bandana to make you more memorable

Fat fingers. She won’t be in touch.

Sumo have you been checking me out as I'm actually wearing a pirate bandana in one picture?

(A)

Seems it wasn’t a mistake and she’s been up north with family for the three months she was on furlough so also wasn’t around to meet up.  Might be worth a second date in that case.

If neither of you could be bothered to communicate in the last three months, it probably isn't 

Thank you once again for telling me why I didn't contact someone because of course you know everything about my life based on the drivel I put on here.

Dating at the moment doesn’t look like much fun if you have to social distance all the way through it 

West it's a case of checking that your date isn't in the crazy scared camp and won't freak out if you move within 2m.

Abbs shouldn't I defer to Linda's superior knowledge of my own mind?!

To be fair, SS, you started the thread asking us to surmise what's going on in your date's head.

Indeed PP which is rather different to telling me what's going on in my own head.  I am happy to receive insights into the working of the female mind but don't require too much help working out what I'm thinking.

I'm not telling you what's going on in your head you weirdo

I'm basing this on what you've said in this thread

but you go on 

Oh soz I thought you were telling me I hadn't been in contact with her because I wasn't interested although that's not what I've said.

I reckon it's not worth it, you're probably not that interested if you haven't bothered to contact her for 3 months tbf

Ah ok, I see. So if the date is with someone normal, you can still move in for a cheeky snog

risky snog given the Sails predilection for heavily toothed cheshire horsey girls

Sumo are you stalking me as you were right about the bandana and this lady has family in Cheshire although originally from China and not into horses?

Describe norks.

Heh

good stalking though sails

not bad stalking

Maybe she has had time to reflect and realise she should have given you more of a chance. Clearly she’s not a no or you wouldn’t be contemplating it .

There is indeed a lot of ambiguity and uncertainty in this situation. 

It will require a degree of delicacy and tact to navigate this.

Cockshot it is then. 

Maybe she's forgotten how utterly forgettable you are (woah)

could you draw picture of her sails and post it and we'll assess if she is worth the hassle

I mean

given that you look like someone who was set on fire and put out using a golf shoe, the bar's pretty low, but always good to get a second opinion on these things

Sumo I can't draw for shit so even my rendering of supermodel would look terrible.

Abbs my thinking may be swayed by the fact that she gives off a vibe of being absolute filth.

I thought Abs was trying to turn you