When I first knew Mr M, after I had stayed over for a night and discarded an empty face cream jar in the bin, I found on a later visit he had fished it out and buried it in a sock drawer. I found this very cute.
When I first knew Mr M, after I had stayed over for a night and discarded an empty face cream jar in the bin, I found on a later visit he had fished it out and buried it in a sock drawer. I found this very cute.
mmm. I am a bit mixed on this. On the one hand fetish weirdness. On the other, i remember smell or the face cream of one person way back in a way that transcends all time. And it has been some time.
Re the credit card it was just so stupid because there was no one else it could be and when quizzed admitted it and I was like wtf were you going to do with it and how did you think you’d get away with it. He didn’t really have any answers and funnily enough I ended it there and then. See you later burglar boy
What Scylla/the link says; it's like you are keeping trophies, demonstrative of you viewing people as conquests. Odd in my view. Less odd if the person gives you something as a gift, and you treasure that.
Lady Pot just abandons her underwear at my place and shockingly seems to expect me to launder it.
After a quick audit it seems I am holding about $400 worth of her collection which only represents about 25% of her entire stash. An audit of my underwear results in a maximum value of $30!!
I am worried that she may have a lingerie problem.
does it make a difference if you are a girl, you give a 20 mins BJ to the guy and he just falls asleep - but you still like him a lot and you just want a small memento?
haaa! One of my friends has loads of taped video calls (18+ content) with an ex. I always said that this should be deleted - mainly for mental health reasons.
‘does it make a difference if you are a girl, you give a 20 mins BJ to the guy and he just falls asleep - but you still like him a lot and you just want a small memento? ‘
Seems a bit artificial and pessimistic, as if you think that memento may be all you'll ever have.
Old hand-written letters are the best mementos. And concert / plane tickets etc. Put some boundaries on this, otherwise you'll have to hire a lock-up just to store old biscuit packets on the basis that you both dunked a McVities (that last is not slang, but sounds as if it should be).
I once did have a shoebox of things that girls had left had my flat but never came back for. Eventually I decided it was a bit Ted Bundyish and threw it all out one day.
We have a sock fairy/thief in this house - I think she is present in many a UK home - I often wonder where all those smelly socks are of the family. On the thread question - it is wrong to steal so most of the things to be taken are illegal and the solicitor could be struck off (yes even over a pair of knickers). However if you took something that does not belong to someone else you might be okay.
The most memorable aspect of one of my most recent dates involved the back seat of a car, but I really don’t think it would have been practical for either of us to have considered stealing that…..
This is the worst
Do you mean taking stuff from the bar or actually from the date's house?
I dated a guy who chose to steal my credit card from my room at uni.
so it depends on the level of intimacy relating to the item?
Credit card theft should be punishable by death!
What Tuesday said
It was all fine up until underwear.
They always end up stealing my heart ...
I always used to offer them my underwear (sometimes at the beginning of the date if I liked the girl) but no-one wanted them
Anybody who has been in a relationship that there are always multiple transgressions and disappointments on both sides.
@Tuesday, the women which I date have underwear from H&M and Zara :-)
When I first knew Mr M, after I had stayed over for a night and discarded an empty face cream jar in the bin, I found on a later visit he had fished it out and buried it in a sock drawer. I found this very cute.
Sounds like Bebchuk is a couple of dates short of wearing their skin as a dress.
Whatever floats your boat, I suppose.
Anything with consent is fine
Underwear without consent is just Tory
A beer mat or something from a good date is cute
Would you steal a car?
Great username. The underwear thing is a terrible terrible idea.
I found the lady shrine, made up of pilfered dildos, panties, and lipstick, was seriously damaging my bedroom game.
It's a bad habit m7. Wood not recommend.
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When I first knew Mr M, after I had stayed over for a night and discarded an empty face cream jar in the bin, I found on a later visit he had fished it out and buried it in a sock drawer. I found this very cute.
mmm. I am a bit mixed on this. On the one hand fetish weirdness. On the other, i remember smell or the face cream of one person way back in a way that transcends all time. And it has been some time.
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I don't get this, but I see sentiment in memory not objects tbh
Re the credit card it was just so stupid because there was no one else it could be and when quizzed admitted it and I was like wtf were you going to do with it and how did you think you’d get away with it. He didn’t really have any answers and funnily enough I ended it there and then. See you later burglar boy
Not sure about the ethics.. but from a psychological point of view it’s certainly ‘interesting’.
https://www.psypost.org/2021/04/narcissistic-individuals-perceive-keepsakes-from-past-relationships-as-trophies-60596?amp=1
What Scylla/the link says; it's like you are keeping trophies, demonstrative of you viewing people as conquests. Odd in my view. Less odd if the person gives you something as a gift, and you treasure that.
Retaining something from a date could be a memento or a trophy. I guess it depends whether the object was procured surreptitiously or not.
Lady Pot just abandons her underwear at my place and shockingly seems to expect me to launder it.
After a quick audit it seems I am holding about $400 worth of her collection which only represents about 25% of her entire stash. An audit of my underwear results in a maximum value of $30!!
I am worried that she may have a lingerie problem.
does it make a difference if you are a girl, you give a 20 mins BJ to the guy and he just falls asleep - but you still like him a lot and you just want a small memento?
Small memento is probably going to be down the front of your top or in hair.
Christ Bebchuk, just do what normal people do and cut a lock of their hair while they are asleep.
What about naked photos and videos from spy cams?
haaa! One of my friends has loads of taped video calls (18+ content) with an ex. I always said that this should be deleted - mainly for mental health reasons.
I think it’s creepy. What’s the house view on retaining nudes?
Live ones are, on the whole, rather frowned upon
Rofgold
@Coronovax - how can it damage your bedroom game? Thinking of your ex's dildo hidden in the basement had a negative effect on your libido during s.x?
‘does it make a difference if you are a girl, you give a 20 mins BJ to the guy and he just falls asleep - but you still like him a lot and you just want a small memento? ‘
*chokes on the stench of desperation*
I do this with memorable autopsies. Keep a gallstone or something.
At least that’s how Crypto will explain his collection to the police once day..
I suspect that would the least of Crypto’s concerns if the police raided his bedsit
The Tory memorabilia may be harder to explain?
Is that what you call it? Makes sense, in a way, I suppose.
There’s a piece of Tory inside all of us.
Didn't no u went to boarding school m433
Heh.
hehe - what's the lawyer equivalent of this - keeping memorable first drafts?
Seems a bit artificial and pessimistic, as if you think that memento may be all you'll ever have.
Old hand-written letters are the best mementos. And concert / plane tickets etc. Put some boundaries on this, otherwise you'll have to hire a lock-up just to store old biscuit packets on the basis that you both dunked a McVities (that last is not slang, but sounds as if it should be).
I once did have a shoebox of things that girls had left had my flat but never came back for. Eventually I decided it was a bit Ted Bundyish and threw it all out one day.
We have a sock fairy/thief in this house - I think she is present in many a UK home - I often wonder where all those smelly socks are of the family. On the thread question - it is wrong to steal so most of the things to be taken are illegal and the solicitor could be struck off (yes even over a pair of knickers). However if you took something that does not belong to someone else you might be okay.
The most memorable aspect of one of my most recent dates involved the back seat of a car, but I really don’t think it would have been practical for either of us to have considered stealing that…..
m7 orhan pamuk already constructed a massive best-selling novel and a v weird real-life but made-up tribute house out of this v deb7
actually not sure that 1 of his was truly a bestseller
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